Embracing Your True Identity in Christ

We live in a culture that’s all about wins and losses, and as much as we try to fight it, it’s easy to let the scoreboard start defining who we are. As coaches, the pressure never really lets up. Between managing practices, navigating team dynamics, and responding to parents' high expectations, we can start to feel like our worth is wrapped up in our record.
But here’s the truth: our identity isn’t tied to our performance. It’s anchored in Christ. Ephesians 4:22-24 tells us to “take off your former way of life, the old self that is corrupted by deceitful desires, to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self.” Our “new self” isn’t defined by wins or losses but by our relationship with Jesus.
Think about Peter. He was a regular guy trying to do his best but often stumbling. He was crushed when he denied Jesus three times in a moment of fear. But Jesus didn’t leave Peter in his failure. After His resurrection, Jesus sought Peter out, offering forgiveness and restoring his purpose (John 21:15-17). Jesus didn’t see Peter for his mistakes but for his willingness to follow and trust again.
We’re a lot like Peter. We might slip up, question ourselves, or feel the weight of the season pressing down. But Jesus meets us there with the same grace He showed Peter. He reminds us that our worth isn’t in the scoreboard but in who we are in Him.
This week, focus on that. How does knowing your identity in Christ change how you coach, lead, and live? How might it impact how you handle a tough season or a challenging game? Remember that God sees beyond the score and calls us to a greater purpose.
Reflection Questions:
As a coach, where do you feel the pressure to measure up? How could releasing that pressure to Christ change the way you lead?
Like Peter, is there an area in your life where you need to accept God’s grace and renewal? How might this impact how you interact with those around you?
Billings FCA Coaches






